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Attached: 2 images I'm confused. I know it's a common acronym, but there seems to be conflicting definitions? #bdsm

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Attached: 2 images I'm confused. I know it's a common acronym, but there seems to be conflicting definitions? #bdsm
Okay I said I wasn’t bothered at all by the outcome but, I am starting to feel quite I don’t know, strange? My weak ability to notice my own emotions due to autism is complicating my ability to know how I feel about that lol
I want to do a dramatic reading of my Autism report when it’s done and sent to me next weekish
✋ Apple Software Update 👉 iPatch
Attached: 2 images I'm confused. I know it's a common acronym, but there seems to be conflicting definitions? #bdsm
"Can you arrange that?"
I live every day like it's my last: stricken with the paralysing terror of my own impending mortality
hey boss sorry im late i accidentally looked into an abyss
2004: Panic At The Disco 2024: Dissociation At The Gangbang
hear me out, a social platform for kinky people with anxiety, called Fretlife
the irony of Global Orgasm Day only coming once a year
As a "clean as you go" person, I'm firmly of the opinion that tech debt tickets are a good way to ensure tech debt never gets cleaned up.
Been thinking about autism a lot lately, and how my autism explains so much about my life and my relationships in retrospect. It's like I kept looking at things as this chaotic explosions of interactions and suddenly shifted my perspective and everything lines up in a way that makes sense.
Being trans really *isn't* about feeling trapped in the wrong body, it's about feeling trapped in the wrong society.
Congrats ⁉️
who has two thumbs a fat arse “limited social interaction” “overly formal speech” “professional success” “social unsuccess” “lack of reciprocity” “poor theory of mind” “a solution focus” and “difficulty expressing and understanding his own needs” Me, the officially diagnosed Autistic fucker
Content warning: Autistic realization
I'm very excited to announce that I'm going to speaking at the #OpenUK State of Open Con 2024 conference in February 🙌
There's an incredible line-up and I'm very proud to be one of the talks chosen - from the submissions to the Open Source Software and Open Source tracks that I was helping review, there was some incredible submissions and speakers, so it's very cool to have made it to the line-up!
I'll be speaking about dependency-management-data, but for those that have seen me speak about it before, there's a tonne of new stuff since my last talks, and I've got some new stuff that'll be dropping into the project + the talk before the talk in February 👀
#StateOfOpenCon #SOOCon24
Extra special ❤️ to my fellow high functioners. There’s nothing easy about grinding to a halt, but there’s also a special kind of hell for people who continue to function and seem normal. It feels like drowning in plain sight. And on that note, the phrase “it’s OK not to be OK” can pop itself right in the sea as far as I’m concerned. Tolerance of poor mental health is bare minimum. Being not OK isn’t OK. People don’t need “permission” to be in that place, they need to be helped out of it.
TW: Suicide 2 nights ago I was in the worst place I’ve been mentally for years. I didn’t want to be alive anymore and I didn’t plan to act on it but I know it’s a short step from there. I sent a mayday text to 3 of my closest people and within 20 mins had someone with me. After a big chat, and 2 days of proper sleep, eating well, seeing friends and healthy distraction, I’m feeling much calmer and I can see the woods from the trees. Cont…
You say: I’ve a weird brain what my brain hears: another new potential friend, squeeeeeeee
Every single person I know is currently at Grade A, Defcon-1, Ultra Premium Level exhaustion right now. So if you're scanning social media and this applies to you, let this be your motivational speech. DON'T do thing. DON'T go get it girl. STAY in bed. ORDER in. EAT some soup. TAKE a nap. REST is not failure. REST does not make you weak. REST is not laziness. REST is self care. REST.
there is no such thing as free shipping. there is just amazon undercutting thousands of small businesses by creating that illusion
i’ve heard if you burn out while already burned out you can overflow the stack and generate copies of whatever the last item is in your inventory
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When you’re estranged from your bio family and you have a compact with your partner to never buy holiday gifts, you realise how absolutely fucking mental every else becomes in December.
After more than 11 years, HashiCorp Co-Founder Mitchell Hashimoto pens a heartfelt goodbye letter to the company he helped create.
I need to read about this "Torment Nexus". I'm getting big "I wasn't old enough to know this book existed nor did I know anyone who did" energy whenever I see it
Attached: 2 images Hi so I literally got this in the mail
Filippo Valsorda & Roland Shoemaker from the Go Team return & bring Nicola Murino with them to continue catching us up on what’s new in Go’s crypto libraries. This is everything we didn’t cover + deep dives from Part 1!
Between and I took 3521 steps.
There's a decent chance Republicans start a civil war if Trump loses. But there's also a decent chance they'll start a civil war if they read the wrong Facebook post about Etsy.
Ask an autistic woman if she is currently masking and there's a good chance the answer will be "Hrm… I don't know…"
With thanks to Tidelift, who let me use my remote office budget on a full size whiteboard while I worked there. Some problems just really need a giant whiteboard to solve :blobcatmaths:
I love this website that gives me warm feelings of materiality and haven't shared it in a long time, so here goes: https://ohhelloana.blog/ by @ohhelloana@mastodon.social 💜
"Dear DEADNAME, We are contacting you about a new survey about the effect of COVID-19 on you and your family…" Okay, so the most interesting effect is that my name is now Terra and I have big tits…
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Reminder to use @mozilla@mozilla.social Firefox: it works, it respects your privacy, and you should do your part in stopping the web from becoming a glorified Webkit workspace.
I guess I'm back here specifically only for the use case of people tagging me to talk about research I love :)
Friends don’t let friends join FAANG
Attached: 1 image Secret Panel HERE 😐 https://tapas.io/episode/3039041
Attached: 1 image Work Hard. Play Hard.
@james@strangeobject.space the attempt to unify the diversity of humanity into clinical buckets.
You may remember I had my autism assessment last week on Wednesday. I was told I’d receive the report today or tomorrow morning and I’d have a feedback session via video call tomorrow at 1pm. I have sent two emails since then to ask for confirmation of appointment and link to said video call. No response. Anyway I have come to the end of my assessment of my assessor and I hereby declare he is not autistic.
Got confused about the gender matchup of an adapter I'm looking for. Male? Female? Uh. "A pegger, not a peggee"